The first lessons in homeschool are about getting along with others, not bugging them, and obeying your teacher, right? Here's the perfect book to get you going on those important lessons!
Each rule is presented in a full-page cartoon picture for young children to color as you teach each rule. Easy teaching instructions are included too. Each rule in this book is also included as a tear-out poster so you can study and master them one by one. We put ours in a binder in plastic page protectors as we learned them, then we can easily review them often. Some of the rules are "We obey our Lord Jesus Christ," "We tell the truth," "When we make a mess, we clean it up," and "We do not create unnecessary work for others" (I like that one!). The book ends with a master list of the 21 Rules ready to post as a good reminder.
I have focused on one rule a week, introducing it with an impromptu story that I concoct to go along with the picture. My children listen attentively and are ready for the punchline, which is always "the rule." Then we memorize the rule. We review these each morning as school begins and remember to put the new rule into practice throughout the day.
It sure helps to have a rule to fall back on when correcting children, rather than just saying "We don't do that." When a certain little boy in my home laughed to see his sister cry, I could remind him of one of our rules: "When someone is sad, we comfort him." Don't miss this book!
Once your children have the 21 Rules of This House down pat, it is time to turn your attention to the big world with some courteous know-hows on living with your fellowman respectfully and happily. Courtesy really has become uncommon! Maybe it is different where you live, but out West it seems that rudeness is the rule.
When we were young, if our parents didn't teach us to be mannerly, it still rubbed off from society, since others expected you to behave properly. Not always so today—it is time for this book! Uncommon Courtesy for Kids teaches table manners, phone manners, rules for church, courtesy words such as "pardon me," "please," and "thank you," how to treat adults, how to act on public transportation, manners in the car, and more.
Each topic is treated by listing several rules in large type so that it can be used as a visual aid or poster. The rules are also illustrated in full-page black-and-white cartoon drawings. We must choose to be courteous and develop the discipline of courtesy each day. We do not stumble into being a gentlemen or a lady. A good one!
Charts, stickers, incentives, rotations—I think we've tried everything imaginable to train our children to share in the household workload. Children need to learn how to do chores long before they can read. In Choreganizers, every chore is represented by a plastic-coated, color-illustrated card. This program includes 6 chore charts, 60 chore cards, and a Chore Store where children can redeem "Dad Dollars" or "Mom Money" to spend on privileges, healthy treats, and time with Mom or Dad. I expect my children to do basic chores without any remuneration, but extra chores could qualify for earning "Mom Money" or real money. Whatever way you choose to do it, the plastic coated chore charts and chore cards will save you lots of time, effort and money. Time to get choreganized!
I've been looking for a book like this for a long time! Divided into grade levels, from first to tenth grade, there are over 200 poems especially for Christian children to enjoy and memorize. The poems for younger grades are in larger print, making them easier to read. Poetry themes include nature, good character, and faith in God. The poem "Speak Gently" was worth the price of the book for me! Paperback, 200 pages.
Speak Gently
by David Bates
Speak gently! It is better far
To rule by love, than fear
Speak gently,let not harsh words mar
The good we might do here!
Speak gently to the little child!
Its love be sure to gain;
Teach it in accents soft and mild:
It may not long remain.
Speak gently to the young, for they
Will have enough to bear
Pass through this life as best they may,
'Tis full of anxious care!
Speak gently to the aged one,
Grieve not the care-worn heart;
The sands of life are nearly run,
Let such in peace depart!
"Read me a story!" Read-aloud time can be such a powerful force for good in the family! Children don't stumble onto excellent reading by themselves; they need the guidance of an experienced parent. My dilemma has always been how to weed out the few excellent pieces of literature from the pile of questionable stuff in the huge public library or bookstores. Honey for a Child's Heart struck a chord in me, as I read Christian author Gladys Hunt's explanation of the purpose of good reading: to uplift and inspire mankind to higher living. Chapters include what makes a good book, fantasy and realism, poetry, scripture reading and more. Includes an excellent indexed and updated 85 page list of the best children's favorites—that alone makes this book well worth its price. I highly recommend this motivating book! Paperback, 224 pages, black and white illustrations from favorite children's books.
Written by the Mennonites, these conservative books are excellent for the Christian home. My children enjoy them immensely and truly remember the lessons taught. Lovely pencil-drawn illustrations, paperback, 159 pages. These refreshing books are founded on old-fashioned values and virtues.
Wisdom and the Millers (ages 6 - 12) contains 25 true and modern stories for children that bring the meaning of Bible verses from the Book of Proverbs to life. Will a father's prayer protect his family from a burglar? See how Grandpa's "soft answer" turned away the wrath of an angry police officer. My favorite story is about a boy who forgets to give water to the family's goats. His father's unique correction makes for a lesson never to be forgotten, even by my children after having just heard the story once! These are wholesome, interesting stories that my children want more and more of. So, here's more:
Storytime with the Millers (ages 4 - 10) contains character-building stories for preschool children that teach respect, responsibility, obedience, kindness, and humility. I was touched by the story of young children returning good for evil in "Three Young Indians." Stories include "Paul in the Manure Pit," "Bossy Betty," and many more.
In Prudence and the Millers (ages 7 - 14), join the Miller children as they learn about health, safety, and courtesy from the Bible. Each true story includes a scripture passage and provides a good example of prudent living. Read about the foolish joke that ended in a tragedy, the embarrassing consequences of not getting enough sleep, the Mother's Day fire, and more.
Uncle Arthur Storytime Books: Teach Character with Bedtime Stories! 44% Off
Everybody loves a story! Evenings at my house are time for read-aloud, and my children's favorite stories have always been Uncle Arthur's Bedtime Stories. These charming, old-fashioned stories have incredible appeal because they are true! These tales really happened, and they sometimes turn out disastrously! Each story is just a few pages long, so it is easy to sneak one in here and there in a busy schedule.
The five-volume set has a publication date of 1976, and it is actually a collection of the best stories found in the 1964 version, so you know old-fashioned Christian values are alive and well. In addition to the real stories about real children, each book has a story from the Bible. Each book has 192 pages, a glossy picture cover, and wonderful color drawings throughout. The very best thing about these stories is that they speak right to a child's heart! I read my daughter Louisa the story "Two Carolines," a story about a little girl who was very pleasant and lovable when out of the house but not very happy to those at home. A day later, Louisa came to me to confess, "I am like that story, Mom." The best part was that I never said one word! I read the story out loud, then Louisa saw herself in it and strived to correct her own behavior. Ooh, hard to beat that kind of powerful teaching—teaching through parables!
One of the stories my grown children remember best is "The Hollow Pie." Seems a certain young man always grabbed the biggest piece for himself rather than watching out for others and saying, "You go first." After a very disappointing dinner, one very sorry boy learned that maybe the biggest isn't always the best!
If a set will bless the whole family for years to come, this is it! As always, your satisfaction is unconditionally guaranteed.
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Blunders—we all make them! Teach your children the social skills that will help them for a lifetime with this clever new game that makes learning manners and good social skills fun! Through funny and blundering adventures, you'll learn table manners, dining etiquette, confident introductions, host and guest skills, telephone manners, how to show respect and kindness, how to avoid gossiping, bullying, and teasing. 2009 Game of the Year Award. For ages 5 to 10 years, 2-8 players.
Children love games, so why not reinforce good manners the fun way? Covers manners at the table, on the telephone, in public places, sportsmanship, and being on time. The game can be played with or without parental guidance as the cards have descriptive pictures as well as words. Includes colorful game board, 100 manners cards, and playing tokens. For 2 to 6 players, ages 4 and up. Sure can't hurt!
George Washington spent time analyzing and collecting rules that he felt constituted decent behavior. His 110 rules include such gems as "Show not yourself glad at the misfortune of another, though he were your enemy" and "Labor to keep alive in your breast that little celestial fire called conscience." We mention these rules often in our family, especially when someone laughs at her own joke (thus breaking one of Washington's rules!). Promotes gentility and provides an interesting glimpse into our beloved founding father. Paperback booklet, 18 pages, illustrated.
Teach your little ones how to behave with this fun program! Each simple lesson teaches a concept with a read aloud children's book suggestions, a discussion, and a creative hands-on activity, game or craft. Complete reproducible craft patterns for the projects are included, making this super easy to use! Lesson topics cover basic manners and social skills such as being grateful, complimenting others, not tattling, hand washing, going to bed, respecting animals, not interrupting, coughing and sneezing, good sportsmanship, good attitude, listening, please and thank you, table manners, tolerance for those who are different, working independently, and much more. 26 lessons in all. Paperback, 128 pages, for ages 3 to 7 years.
Wonderful help for parents who are stumped on how to handle interrupters and tattle-talers! These colorful picture books tell the story of a child with an annoying habit and how he whipped it! My kids loved these fun books, and I could see them taking mental notes as the insightful story shows how other children and adults are annoyed by these bad habits. Learn to breathe your interruption right out your nose and save it for the right time to talk. Being a tattle-tale just might make your tongue grow very long and purple spotted, but don't worry—there are some great rules to help you not tattle! Paperback, 32 pages, for ages 4 to 10 years old.
This fun book from the American Girl company covers every possible situation, teaching what is appropriate and what is not: how to act at weddings, funerals, restaurants, parties, when meeting new people, and in malls or at movies. Telephone etiquette, thank-you notes, and which fork to use are explained in cute cartoon drawings and explanations. I especially like the quiz cartoon page on what constitutes a "nosy question"—now that is valuable information! This book presents a wonderfully comprehensive and kid-friendly look at how to behave. Paperback, 116 pages, color drawings, for ages 8 and up.
Although this is an old book (1936), it has been one of the most popular books ever written, having sold over 15 million copies! In this book, there are gems of truth for creating successful human relationships that I've not discovered elsewhere. Includes fundamental techniques in handling people, ways to be likable, how to win people to your way of thinking, how to be a leader—in general, good social skills and how to get along happily with others. My teenagers have greatly benefited from reading and applying this book's message, and so have I. Paperback, 275 pages, fun and easy-to-read.
People—and our relationships with them—are such an important part of our lives. No amount of intelligence, ingenuity, or talent can make up for poor social skills. Creating a connection in 90 seconds is no gimmick. Once you learn the skills needed to develop a rapport, you can do it almost instantly. Learn to read body language, synchronize behavior, be likeable, greet others with warmth, make sense of others' preferences, listen (not just talk), watch for cues, and "give and take." A great place to start when teaching social skills. Hardcover, 192 pages.
I have to admit that the first time I looked at this book, I really didn't believe the title! After all, that is what mothers are for—isn't it?—to make everything all better!? Learn how to be an understanding, loving, true friend to your family and associates with one simple principle: empathy. Allow them to take responsibility for themselves, and find some peace, Mom! Instead of feeling like you have to control things, or solve others' problems, you can learn to be an understanding listener and empower others to find their own solutions. I highly recommend this very practical book that you will put to use the moment you begin reading it. It has made our family life so much better!
This old-fashioned book from the 1930s encourages girls to a noble life and true ideals as they grow into young women. Written in the language of yesteryear, girls are instructed to keep a sunny disposition, cultivate modesty, watch their tongues, be obedient, enjoy books and nature, be ladylike, and overall have a life consecrated to the glorious work of being a wife and mother. Paperback, 205 pages.
Young women want to dress in style, but with that desire comes a huge responsibility to use femininity to bring glory to God. Written in a hip, big-sister style, this very straight-forward Christian book gives much-needed insight on what guys actually think when confronted with immodesty. Understand the intriguing, alluring power source that God has entrusted to every young woman for the holy purpose of creating a family someday. Take the "Truth or Bare" fashion test to see if your clothes are truly modest. My teenage daughters wish every girl could read this eye-opening book. Paperback, 78 pages, for age 12 and up.
I have re-read this treasure countless times during my 35 years of marriage to help me remember how important it is to be the wife and mother God wants me to be! This charming, touching story will make you want to put a tablecloth on the table, brush your hair, and put on your lipstick right now.
Raising a teen is a whole new ballgame! Here are the resources I have used to help my teens make the transition. One book, Jumping Ship, is for you to read. The rest are for your teen. Priceless! Includes:
Jumping Ship:What to Do So Your Children Don't Jump Ship to the World When They Get Older. Buy the book separately, above.
Secret Keeper - The Delicate Power of Modesty Buy the book separately, above.
How to Win Friends and Influence People Buy the book separately, above.
Hopscotch, Hangman, Hot Potato, And Ha Ha Ha
Essential for teen parties and get-togethers, this is it—the sublime total collection of all the games you could ever think of! From Capture the Flag to Stickball and Volleyball, from Jacks and Old Maid to Word Lightning, you'll find easy-to-use instructions, recommendations, and scoring for more than 250 popular games and sports for children. Includes games to play on grass, on pavement, on steps and porches, inside the house, at parties, and while traveling! I like the interesting anecdotes about the origins of games too. This is a good one! Paperback, 304 pages, black and white drawings for all ages. Buy the book separately here.
What to Do So Your Children Don't Jump Ship to the World When They Get Older
There is a troubling trend in Christian families today: older children become discontent and rebellious, jumping ship as soon as they can survive without the family, some as young as 16 years old. Parents are crying, "Where did we go wrong? What can we do to prevent this from happening to the rest of our children?" They re-evaluate and "clamp down" on the remaining children, making life twice as unpleasant for them as it was for their jumped-ship older sibling.
As parents, we are "marketing" a Christian (+ homeschooling) lifestyle to our children in a world that has unleashed evil to win their attention! We are yearning for them to accept the values and family culture that we believe will bring the greatest joy to them in their life, even after we are no longer around to help them. This book helps parents step back and take an objective look—how full of happiness and fulfillment does your lifestyle look to your emerging teens? Do they have hope and the promise of joy if they live like you do, or does your faith look like a bunch of Pharisee's rules and regulations? Is your Christianity and your homeschool lifestyle something that would inspire a 16-year-old?
I wish, wish, wish that every parent would read this book and apply it (including myself). I know it would make a huge difference to their children, and in their family life. I believe that the advice in this book would help children stay true to their parents' faith!
One reader writes:
Just one reading made a change overnight, and continued with daily changes that we could hardly have imagined. Our leaning-toward-rebellion teen suddenly folded my laundry, and cleaned the kitchen completely on her own, just being nice! Her heart is changing too, she talks to us differently, shares things she has clammed up for months... Parenting became a joy again, and we could not believe how blind we had been. Furthermore, applying what the author suggests is even fun and may bring joy and enthusiasm back into your life that you forgot you had lost long ago. . . .this book gives so much hope!
If you are a parent who is wondering if you are doing everything "right" to help your teens grow up faithful and happy, please stop wondering and get some real help and practical advice and the wisdom of one older and wiser.
I like to watch movies with my family occasionally, but a stroll through the video store is enough to send me running. There is sure a lot of vile stuff in there! I was delighted to find this guide book to family-friendly entertainment that your family will love! Over 500 of Hollywood's best classic movies (1930-1960) are summarized according to category: Comedy, Action/Adventure, Musical, Mystery/Suspense, Western, Animal Stories. These are movies that are readily available in libraries, video stores, and on cable TV channels. Get the popcorn poppin'! Paperback, 354 pages.
Written especially for homeschoolers who want to use movies to enrich their studies, this informative book will guide you through each period of history, from Bible times through ancient civilizations such as Egypt, Greece, Rome, Mayans, Vikings, on to the Middle Ages, Renaissance, Reformation, and right through the centuries into modern history with its multitude of war movies. Other educational or family appropriate movies are included too. I appreciate the author's objections, which she notes next to the movie entry, keeping negative surprises from coming on your screen unawares. She even notes well-known historical movies that she recommends you don't view! A unique and useful book that will make your homeschool much more fun (and educational)!
This new version has more than 800 additional movies!
Written by a homeschool veteran and former faculty member in a university drama and theater department, Learning With the Movies is a guidebook for parents who desire to enhance, with film, their teaching of certain historical time periods or famous people. Now Learning With the Movies has added over 800 additional movies across all categories, as well as updated information on how to find movies, information about new hardware to make movie viewing safer for children, and ways to stretch your dollars to use film for school and family fun. 161 pages, Spiralbound.
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Without a doubt, these excellent DVD's have had more impact than almost any other teaching tool I have used in my home. Up to now, they have only been available in costly collections. I am thrilled to offer you the best on the market to teach your children Christian virtues through the lives of famous men and women in history! My children love these, and have watched them over and over again.
Highly recommended!
* Amazingly accurate to history
* Exciting to watch
* Superb role models
* All ages love them and learn from them!
William Bradford provides a superb role model, while being entertaining and exciting to watch. All ages will enjoy and learn from it! This feature portrays the historically accurate story of leaving the old world, landing in Cape Cod, and working hand-in-hand with the Indians to forging a settlement in the wilderness, ending in the first Thanksgiving. My family loves this DVD, and has watched it over and over again. Highly recommended!
